Eric & Lois

crane and I met on this website in August 2021, and since then we have been in touch and chatting frequently. I think we can talk happily when we have something in common, so we spend more and more time together.

crane and I started by talking about some politics, some social issues. We all like to watch the news, so we often talk about the people and things we see on the news.

Another time I talked most about my interest in his hobbies. He said he liked playing video games, especially League of Legends. So we talk a lot about games. Besides, we also talk about entertainment gossip and travel, so it’s kind of a fun topic.

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Before this, I never thought I would be in a relationship with a guy, and I never thought I would have something to do with him. Because I think everyone has the right to pursue who they like, so I don’t want to affect other people’s lives at all, nor do I want to interfere with other people’s freedom. I have always felt that we are two separate individuals, there is no need to interfere with each other’s choices. So I always keep a rational attitude when talking with him.

But surprisingly, he and I had some stories. Originally I have not been in love, also have not talked about the opposite sex friends. I didn’t expect him to talk so much about relationships with me. We talk most about relationships and how to resolve conflicts between two people, and he especially likes to talk about interpersonal skills. So I have some admiration for him. And in that period of time, we get along well, sometimes he will be like a big brother to take care of me.

We talked a lot after that and arranged to meet up a lot. I feel like we have a lot to talk about and we’re both interested in talking about. So there’s a chance that we could become lovers. But at that time, he suddenly told me that he would go to Japan to study, and this trip to Japan is to realize his dream of studying abroad. The news certainly came as a great shock to me, because we lost contact with each other after that. In fact, at first after hearing the news, I was very sad and sad. At that time, I had just known him and there was no emotional basis between us, so he suddenly said that he wanted to study abroad, which meant that there would be no result between us.

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In the chat, I also gradually know some things about him, such as he is a student, he is not a game enthusiast and so on. So I’ve been trying to find a chance to meet him.

Two months later, we arranged to meet in September. That day, crane and I took a bus for half an hour to the beach, and then walked for more than ten minutes to the beach. There were many people swimming, so we found a place with water and sat down. After a while we began to swim. It was mid-afternoon, but the sun was still strong. So we went swimming in the sea.

Later, crane gave me an interesting demonstration: he half lay down in the water, and then raised his hands above his head. I read it and I copied it and I tried to put myself on it.

I thought to myself: What the hell is this? He’s so funny!

When I see crane holding himself upright above his head, I think he is telling me how cute (funny) it is. So I got up the courage to put my hand on it, and it worked.

So we began to enjoy the time alone, taking pictures of the moment with our phones while enjoying the view of the sea and the laughter of the people on the beach.